August 2nd 2012, and Brit Gemma Gibbons wins a judo silver medal at the London Olympics. So why am I choosing to focus on her boyfriend for this personal development lesson..?
Make no mistake, Gibbons’ medal is a superb achievement, a real and much needed boost to her sport in the country. Like a lot of sports people, her boyfriend is in the same sport, and Scot Euan Watson was looking for a medal himself, but 2 days earlier he was knocked out.
It’s fairly normal for a TV interviewer to ask a defeated sports person if they can take any positives. Here’s how Euan replied, with tears bursting to flow –
“I can’t take any positives,” he answered. “I feel like I’ve let myself down a bit. I feel like I’ve let my coaches down, anyone I’ve every trained with. I’ve let my mum, my dad and my brother down.
“I’ve been working for this for over a quarter of a century, so no, there’s no positives to be taken.”
Most sports people do not give that response, which is surprising, because most defeated athletes *will* be feeling like that!
Judo, like all martial arts, is based on a foundation of self examination, respect, integrity, honesty. By answering so honestly, Watson was showing all of those, and here’s the particular thing that got me going…
When asked if he had made a mistake, he answered that he was beaten by a beautiful piece of judo, and that to say he’d made a mistake would be a disservice to his opponent.
How about that for respect, integrity, honesty! No excuses, no blame, just respect, and in fact the respect he showed his opponent with that comment also showed respect for his sport and respect for himself.
I daren’t think how many times over how many years I’ve written about sport showing as clear a light as can be on goal achievement and personal development lessons. Burton’s girlfriend Gemma Gibbons got the sporting glory, a massive Olympic silver medal after years of dedicated work.
Her boyfriend Burton had sporting disaster, after even more years of dedication and work. He looked it in the face, and showed personal traits to be proud of.
Is there anything in your life where you can question your respect, responsibility and integrity – to others yes, but perhaps more importantly, to yourself?
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‘Til Next Time,
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